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Thursday, March 8, 2012

Parenting

A friend posted this article today and I thought it summed up how I've been feeling lately about being a parent.

My favorite part is this:

My day-to-day routine isn't what I envisioned it would be four years ago. Some of the things I imagine I'm judged on now are minor, others, a little more major. But mostly they are simple faults and I now know that they don't make me a bad parent. Sometimes I leave dirty diapers on the changing table. My children's socks don't always match. I forget to brush my daughter's hair. I use TV as a way to take a breather. I utilize the fast-food drive-thru. I bribe. I'm sometimes too easy. I'm sometimes too hard. I sometimes make the wrong decision, give the wrong punishment, ask too much, ask too little. But within all these minor and major faults is a singular truth: Most days, I'm doing the best I can. And I honestly believe that's a truth that can be applied to most parents: Most days, we're all doing the best we can.


Being a parent is hard work.  It is especially hard not to judge parents without having the experience as one (and even then it's still hard not to judge in some circumstances).  But I try.  We try.  Brady and I.  We are a team.  We both realize our days are much better and smoother when we have each other.
{here I am with no make up, hair not done and exhausted...BUT there's a happy boy!!}

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Pregnancy

Well, Friday is the BIG day! As the day approaches I am constantly thinking about the exciting changes coming up and the changes with my body that come along with it. Here is a list of what's going through my head:

- I can't wait to give Brady a hug without a big belly in the way
- I am going to miss feeling Cooper kicking and wiggling all day long
- I can't wait to lay on my back or belly...or just be comfortable in general
- I am going to miss having the "pregnant belly"...crazy I know but I think woman are adorable with them
- I can't wait to wear my wedding rings
- I am going to miss all the attention and questions like "when is your baby due?"
- I can't wait to not have to pee every hour
- I am going to miss Brady touching my belly and seeing the excitement in his eyes
- I can't wait to hold Cooper, snuggle him, kiss him, watch him grow, and all the excitement that comes along with a growing family

Overall, this pregnancy has been an amazing experience and an easy one compared to our first. I really have had it easy and I am going to miss the joy of having a growing child inside me. I look forward to all the new experiences that are coming our way and am anxious to meet this little man of ours.

Here are a few pictures- Enjoy!

Dad in the comfy chair

Do I look tired or what?? 38 weeks
More of his room

Friday, January 22, 2010

Ready for Cooper!

3 Weeks from today is my scheduled c-section! Things have been crazy busy but seem to be going ok. I just got home from a routine check up and things are progressing fairly quickly! I am 1 cm dilated and 90% effaced. We all hope that he can hold out for at least another 2 weeks. I requested an ultrasound, since I had to go through that uncomfortable procedure, and my doctor happily did the ultrasound. He is definitely still a boy! He weighs approximately 6.5 pounds. His head is way, way, way down into my pelvis...we couldn't even get a good view of his face because he was down too far (that explains the constant pain down there). He has chubby cheeks that are easily seen on the screen! He loves to suck on his arm...every time we have had an ultrasound done, his arm is over his face and you can see his lips just sucking away at it! I hope he doesn't come out with hickeys! But maybe that means he'll be a good eater. He still is moving all over the place and my belly never really looks completely round anymore. I am tired and extremely anxious to hold our little man and kiss his squishy cheeks!

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Less than 5 weeks!


Picture taken at Baldwin Beach, Maui-34 weeks

I had a doctor's appointment yesterday...I am measuring at 33 weeks (so a week behind) and Cooper's heart rate is strong and steady! I just got confirmation this morning that our C-section has been scheduled for February 12th at 7:30 am. I was hoping for around noon but there is a higher chance that the surgery would be bumped to a different time if there are several emergency surgeries that come in. So to be safe my doctor scheduled it for the morning. We enjoyed our vacation to Hawaii and have been EXTREMELY busy since then so I am not sure when pictures will be posted. Cooper's room is still in the works...school has taken priority over all the fun stuff that I want to do :( I am feeling the aches and pains of being 34 weeks pregnant and I am not looking forward to them for the next 4 weeks. My ankles have started to swell as well as my face! Yuck! Oh well, our little man is worth it all...I just hope my body can make it through 6 12 hour shifts at the hospital before he comes! YIKES!

Monday, December 28, 2009

32 weeks!

Today I had a routine check up before we head to Hawaii for 10 days. I am measuring at 30 weeks and the little guy is breech! It's a good thing I will be having a c-section. Things seem to be going great and I can't complain about that!

His room is coming along very very slowly. We're still trying to transition the "spare/collect all" bedroom to a nursery and it's taking longer than we would have liked. It's amazing to me how much junk two people can collect over the years!

Once we get back from Hawaii I will be starting school and the crazy schedule starts up again. I will be going to class 2 days a week, clinical at the hospital 2 days a week, online classes AND two doctor's appointments of my own a week. My doctor wants to monitor me closely since I went into preterm labor with my last pregnancy, which means one office visit with him and an addition non-stress test every week! On the upside...I get to hear our little man's heart beat many many times and will be taken care of if something doesn't seem right.

So, with 7 weeks left I feel pretty great and I'm still pretty small! Hopefully that means less baby weight that I need to loose once he's born :)

Monday, December 21, 2009

Little Update

Not too much has happened in the last little while. I keep growing and Cooper is pretty relaxed and enjoys rolling around. He doesn't kick very often, which is pretty great because when he does it can be pretty painful. His room is slowly coming along. I am SO anxious to get it done but my time has been put into finishing Christmas presents and sewing blankets for upcoming babies and for Cooper.

31 weeks!
Newest project as of today! Cute stuffed animals...this is a giraffe and an elephant is soon to come!

Monday, December 14, 2009

10 Reasons I know I'm pregnant

I would like to share my top 10 things that I have noticed over the past 30 weeks:

10. I now have a reason to sleep whenever I want for however long I want!
9. Brady looks at me funny when I crave carbonated drinks
8. I wake up every morning around 3:30 to empty my bladder (and I'm not joking about the time either. It's always within 10 minutes of 3:30)
7. No one can stop me from eating!
6. There's an extra pillow on our bed that is used to help support my hips
5. There are water bottles everywhere around our house and I forget where I put them (SEE NUMBER 4)
4. I seem to forget EVERYTHING and find myself asking Brady all the time where things are
3. Kidney stones are one of the worst things I have ever had to endure
2. I get to stuff my bra with something called "nursing pads!"
and...
1. People comment on my "cute" belly. Any other time it would just be a "fat" belly and how dare someone say anything about that!